
Laura stood at the window. She had cleared a peephole through the frost but she saw only blank whiteness. She could not see Pa at the door nor tell when he left it. She went slowly back to the heater. Mary sat silently rocking Grace. Laura and Carrie just sat.
"Now girls!" Ma said. "A storm outdoors is no reason for gloom in the house."
"What good is it to be in town?" Laura said. "We're just as much by ourselves as if there wasn't any town."
"I hope you don't expect to depend on anybody else, Laura." Ma was shocked. "A body can't do that."
- The Long Winter
Chapter 13 "We'll Weather the Blast"
by Laura Ingalls Wilder

Many times over the last two weeks I've been thinking about this little family and
this book in particular as the snow fell and fell on our little prairie home and left us literally stranded inside for days at a time. For the first day or two we were content just to be. We laid around and watched movies, made cookies, stoked a fire. And then more snow fell. And we started climbing the walls a bit. As news channels broadcast footage of bare grocery store shelves and pleaded with citizens to stay in their homes and not even attempt to get out and about, my worrisome nature, like Laura, started to get the better of me.
"What time is it? I mean what month is it?" Laura asked stupidly.
"It is the middle of February," Ma answered
Then spring was nearer than Laura had thought. February was a short month and March would be spring. The train would come again and they would have white bread and meat.
"I am so tired of brown bread with nothing on it," Laura said.
"Don't complain, Laura!" Ma told her quickly. "Never complain of what you have. Always remember you are fortunate to have it."
-- The Long Winter
Chapter 23 The Wheat in the Wall
By Laura Ingalls Wilder

I must admit that peeking into a book like
The Long Winter while trapped by a blizzard myself was a bit of a comfort. Because if anyone had it worse that I did, with my nice heater on full blast, electricity and plenty of food, it was definitely the Ingalls family. They were living in a little wooden structure with 1) no insulation 2) no heat source outside of a stove running off of twisted hay and 3) doh! No trains could get through for months and so they had a severely limited food supply.
As an adult to go back and read these Little House books, and
The Long Winter in particular, I am continuously amazed at Ma's fortitude, ingenuity and positive attitude. As much as Pa was the family star, Ma was the family glue. She made these stories into what they are--- happy tales of a family pulling together and making it--- instead of tales of the loneliness, isolation and severe poverty of rural pioneer life.
It's amazing and comforting to know that something as simple as your attitude when approaching a task can make or break a situation. Caroline Ingalls, during this long and hard winter, was looking around this tiny room at her children who were living off of a potato a day and having to grind raw wheat in a coffee grinder in order to have a little bread at the end of the day and decided to have a good attitude about it all. I wouldn't have blamed the woman if she'd had a hissy, ranted about being dragged from her pretty little home in Minnesota to the God-forsaken wilderness, and demanded to be put on the first train out of town. But she never did. She always seemed to know that they'd make it through whatever was going on, and it was best done cheerfully.
This is a real lesson for me and one that is a real struggle some times. But I realize that if these people could get through those sort of struggles, then by golly I can get through mine. And I have a feeling that spring will be as sweet for me this year as it was for the Ingalls family so long ago.
And with that, I wish you a happy Valentine's Day! And may your spring come quickly as well!~